I know that one of your goals daily is to be pleasant to others. This will only happen as you yield to My Spirit moment by moment. Unpleasant things happen during a day's time, and often you will meet unpleasant people. When this happens try not to react immediately. When you are hasty with your words, you will usually be under the influence of your flesh instead of My Spirit.
Paul exhorted believers to be kind to one another and tenderhearted. It might be well for you to look up all the references in My Word that have the phrase, "one another." This will give you a clear picture of how I want you to treat others.
Ask My Spirit to remind you when you deal with an unpleasant person that I died to forgive them of their sins as well as yours. My love is shed abroad in your heart by My Holy Spirit. Let My love flow from your heart to others, and you will succeed in your goal to be pleasant to people and even your desire to be pleasant when you experience unpleasant situations.